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June 2010

Competence Continuum

by Dr.Mani on June 28, 2010

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My daughter and I have an interesting pastime. We take long walks in the evening, and talk about stuff. Just stuff. Some of it is trivial and silly. Other things are profound and deep.

Explaining concepts to a child, and answering the probing questions that follow, often let me clarify (to myself) some vague and ill-defined positions I’ve accepted earlier.

Yesterday, we discussed competence and excellence. And the Peter Principle… “Each man rises to his level of incompetence.”

I stated my view of the continuum thusly:

Ignorance: Lack of knowledge about something.

Incompetence: Inability to execute with even modest quality or efficiency.

Mediocre: Able to do it, but far below acceptable standards.

Average: Modestly adequate. Tolerable. Barely acceptable.

Competent: Having capacity to do it – and do it well.

Good: Competence, with an edge. Better in one (or many) ways than most.

Excellent: Top notch. Superior quality standards. Hard to improve upon.

World-class: Reaching the highest stratum in the universe.

World #1: THE ultimate best in the world. Usually one. Rarely, a tiny group.

Then, we discussed specific examples. Like cooking, playing chess and writing books. And we mentioned names. Like Diego Maradona, and John McEnroe, and Michael Jackson.

My point was that anyone (barring serious physical or mental impediments that may interfere) can aspire to being world-class, as long as they have the discipline to raise their “level of incompetence” to a higher plane.

It’s just a question of knowing the price to pay – and then choosing to pay it.

Yes, it might take ten years – or longer.

Yes, it demands an obsessive, maniacal focus on one (or a few) things, to the exclusion of much else.

Yes, it means giving up something – which may be more precious, more important, that matters more.

That’s the price one pays for being “world class”. As a Spanish proverb goes, “Take what you want and pay for it, says God”.

Beyond that point, it’s a random variable.

There are 512 world-class soccer players at FIFA 2010, but only one Messi. There have been thousands over the years, but only one Diego Maradona, and one Pele.

Being a Pele or a Maradona, a Michael Jackson or an Oprah Winfrey, a John McEnroe or a Gary Kasparov, isn’t predictable. It’s sheer luck.

What do you think?

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How Much Is Enough?

by Dr.Mani on June 26, 2010

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I don’t know (yet) where I’m going with this blog post. But I just had to start writing it after reading Warren Buffett’s promise to the “Giving Pledge”.

Ever since I first heard it as a school boy, the story of how Jesus valued the poor woman’s pennies more than the rich merchant’s gold coins (because they represented ALL of her meager possessions) had resonated on a visceral level with my young conscience.

In his letter, Buffett echoed the sentiment in these words:

“More than 99% of my wealth will go to philanthropy during my lifetime or at death. Measured by dollars, this commitment is large. In a comparative sense, though, many individuals give more to others every day.

“Millions of people who regularly contribute to churches, schools, and other organizations thereby relinquish the use of funds that would otherwise benefit their own families. The dollars these people drop into a collection plate or give to United Way mean forgone movies, dinners out, or other personal pleasures. In contrast, my family and I will give up nothing we need or want by fulfilling this 99% pledge.”

It brings up the thorny question:

“How much is enough?”

At what point does one begin to ‘give away’ instead of mindlessly accumulating more?

Warren Buffett has been my idol and role model for a long time. I’ve read his essays and books with great interest, not only for the wisdom and knowledge about investing that he generously shares, but to better understand his work ethic and philosophy about wealth.

His Philanthropic Pledge is another extension of the same worldview he has expressed for decades.

An attitude of a supremely gifted expert who applied his talents dutifully to maximizing opportunities in a niche he chose to pursue.

One that’s rooted in a sense of deep and sincere gratitude for serendipitously having been thrust in the path of great wealth.

And one ever-conscious of the fragile thread of random, even ‘unfair’ reward-and-punishment continuum, that any student of life is painfully (or joyously) aware of.

It’s a belief system that I also see in the writings of George Soros – another of my heroes, who without fanfare gives away nearly $700 million every year to causes he believes in and supports.

And it is subtly distinct from that of a Bill Gates, whose (unquestionably noble and generous) activities in the realm of philanthropy are a modern reflection of the same ruthlessly manipulative and obsessively focused visionary zeal that guided and directed his rare brilliance and extraordinary intelligence to out-negotiate less talented competitors, and dominate a marketplace, acquiring massive wealth in the process.

Warren Buffett says, in resigned acceptance of the inherent inequity that governs our universe:

“I’ve worked in an economy that rewards someone who saves the lives of others on a battlefield with a medal, rewards a great teacher with thank-you notes from parents, but rewards those who can detect the mis-pricing of securities with sums reaching into the billions. In short, fate’s distribution of long straws is wildly capricious.”

I concur with this point of view.

It’s why I’ve never felt the pride of performance, or the arrogance of accomplishment at my own work – but rather have a sense of awe and deep gratitude at the steady, if slow, growth of my not-for-profit enterprise (boosted by ever-increasing donations from caring supporters) that has touched the lives of 70 little kids, helping them receive life-saving heart operations.

That stems from my view of life itself. One I can explain to myself, and sustain/defend in debate through both scientific (quantum physics, quarks and parallel universes) and spiritual (advaitism, maya, or even the Book of Genesis) argument, if called upon to.

A view that’s rooted in the randomness, uncertainty and utter unreasonableness of Fate’s caprice, that puts paid to “the best laid plans of man and mouse” with a casual, even accidental swish of its cruel (or benevolent) hand.

Yet so many spend so much of their limited existence in pursuit of the symbols of success, putting off until much later (or even forever) the act of ‘giving back’.

Or even turning that into another focus of their quest for glory, fame and attention.

Why?

Can you tell?

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Twitter Is A Waste, If…

Yes, Twitter is a waste.
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Seeing Beyond

I’m reading Robin Sharma’s “Who Will Cry When You Die?” and got many powerful insights from it.
One of them is about ’seeing beyond’.
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It Doesn’t Matter?

I sat in front of the monitor, watching intently.
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A ‘No Privacy’ Generation

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