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Congenital Heart Defects

In Your Hands

by Dr.Mani on August 19, 2010

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Someone asked me once what it is like to hold the heart of a child in my hand.

“It must be so tiny,” he said. “How can you see to put the stitches in?”

I thought for a moment.

“It is tiny,” I agreed. “It is the size of a hummingbird.”

Hummingbird

“And sometimes that is what I think of when I listen to some little hearts. The frantic beating, the flutter of a heart desperate to fly freely inside a child’s chest.

“I think, ‘There is a hummingbird in this child’s chest. A ruby-throated hummingbird, desperate to live, desperate for the nectar of life.’

“And I imagine that I must approach it carefully, and hold it gently, but firmly.

“When I hold it I can feel the warmth through my gloved hand.

“I could think about how I hold the future of the child’s life in that hand. I could think about how I hold the laughter, the joy, the tears, the future of that child in my hand.

“But it would overwhelm me to think about all that they could be and I could not do my job. So I ask my assistant to think about those things for me.”

“Who is your assistant?” he asked.

“Why you of course!” I smiled.

“Me?”

“Yes, let me show you. Empty your pockets into your hand.”

“Everything?”

“Yes, everything.”

I watched as he did as I asked. Then I began to remove the items one by one.

I took away his keys. I took away a pack of gum, a breath mint, some loose change. I took away a parking stub and a small charm until the only thing left in his hand was his wallet.

Then I closed his fingers over it gently until he was holding it securely.

“You are my assistant. In your hand you hold the life, the laughter, the love, the future of a child. Her heart is only a little smaller than your wallet.

“I have taken away all the things in your hand that are your life – the keys to your car, the entertainment of an evening, the sweetness of candies. All that is left is what matters – a donation.

“You are the one who truly holds her heart in your hand. You are the one who can afford to think about what her life could be like. Will you do that?”

He looked at me with tears in his eyes and asked, “And then what will you think about?”

“I will think about hummingbirds. I will think about how to slow the tiny flutters and how to stitch the holes. And I will think about what I can do to save her life.

“I can… because you hold the most important part in your hand.

You hold the possibility of life.

Make a difference. Heal a child’s heart. Click here to see how.

(With deep gratitude to Becky Blanton – for putting into words the feelings that were trapped in my heart!)

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Just Imagine

by Dr.Mani on August 16, 2010

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Imagine…

A tiny little two year old girl in my out-patient
clinic. Bright eyes. Long, curving eyebrows. Jet
black, curly hair.

But her breathing is labored. Her chest heaves
and falls with every heart beat.

Her pinched, anxious face is intense with the effort
it takes to suck air into her starving lungs.

I place my stethoscope over her heart… and can
hear the loud roar of turbulent blood flowing
across the hole in her heart.

It’s pushing twice as much blood into her small
lungs, flooding them with fluid, choking her.

She needs treatment. An operation to fix the hole.

Her family doesn’t have the money for it.

. . .

Imagine…

A large, brightly lit hall in a hotel halfway
across the world. Smartly dressed men. Beautiful
women. All power-networking in a business climate.

There’s energy crackling in the air. Here are some
excited entrepreneurs, gathered to learn how to
boost their business success, and generate more
wealth.

It’s the NAMS workshop.

And David Perdew walks on stage. He makes a short
announcement.

Its impact will reach out to a little girl in India
- and save her life!

. . .

Imagine…

A smiling little face, clutching a stuffed toy and
hiding shyly behind her mother’s saree as she peers
at me from her hospital bed.

The relieved smiles on her parent’s tired faces, as
they look lovingly upon the relaxed, healthy face of
their little girl.

Priyadarshini is no longer fighting to survive.

She had her surgery. Her VSD has been closed. The
money for her treatment became available.

Because People Like You Cared Enough To
Make a Difference!

Attendees at NAMS donated $1,300 in a day – to fund
her treatment.

While they learned to build a business, they also
saved a little life.

. . .

Imagine…

The feeling of deep satisfaction and joy that comes
from being able to do this.

The sense of purpose and wonderment when you become
part of a child’s future.

The excitement and energy that is a natural result of
being involved in a worthwhile cause.

I Want That Feeling For YOU

That’s why I’m inviting you to join NAMS4Kids – on
August 20th.

You can be a part of a massive giveaway event which
will raise AT LEAST $10,000 to fund heart surgery
for kids.

But first, I’d like you to listen to a rare interview
I did with Roger Carr about this event. Here’s the
link:

Listen to the interview

Then, decide if you want to be a part of NAMS4Kids.
I hope you will want to go here, and take the next
step:

Learn more about NAMS4Kids – click here

Thank you from my heart.

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Now this is WIERD! Real weird!
I drafted a post about a certain drug – and couldn’t post it here on my blog despite trying many different ‘tricks’ (including turning off my spam filters!)
So, I put it on a separate web page – you can read it here!
What’s inexplicable to me is how I find [...]

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Seth Godin pre-launched his new book, LINCHPIN – in style. In the process he helped raise $100,000 for the ACUMEN fund.
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Viewing these two facts together brought something [...]

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On The Threshold

Image credit sxc.hu
In a few days, an event for which I’ve planned and prepared for months will take place. On August 25th, 2009 I will officially ‘launch’ my first ever print book,
“Think, Write & Retire – How To Turn Words Into Wealth, Easily!“
On the threshold of this special moment, there are mixed feelings. [...]

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A few hours before watching the memorial service to my favorite singer and entertainer, Michael Jackson, I was on YouTube seeing “The Making of Live Aid for Africa” – a musical extravaganza spearheaded by Michael and Lionel Ritchie that went on to raise over $60 million dollars in 1985 for fighting hunger in a famine-ravaged [...]

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Questioning Gates Foundation

A paper in today’s issue of the medical journal Lancet raises questions about the governance of Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation.
The Gates Foundation is among the biggest charities in the world that funds, and thereby drives much of biomedical research, globally. I heard about it from this article in our daily newspaper, “The Hindu”.
With [...]

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Pick Your Battles

In 2005, more than 135 million children were born; a little under 10 million children under the age of 5 died.
As a medical professional who has devoted his career to caring for kids, my heart aches at these statistics.

No child should die.
That’s my dream. It’s also a gargantuan challenge to meet.There are battles to [...]

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