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LINCHPIN - Seth Godin

Seth Godin is remarkable. Always. At least, I think he is.

But when I read an excerpt of his new book, LINCHPIN – let’s just say I felt a bit let down!

In this post, I’m going to explore WHY.

First, a quick reminder about the fallacy of trying to judge or describe the whole after seeing only a part – like the 5 blind men who described an elephant variously as being like a rope, a tree trunk, a knife, a rough carpet and a thick snake (after feeling, respectively, the tail, leg, tusk, back and trunk).

All I’ve read is the digital excerpt, NOT the entire book.

Still, I had hoped for some a-ha moments in even that sample – so when I shared this short message with a good friend inside TRIIIBES.com, I wasn’t sure what to expect in reply. I wrote to Marcos Gaser:

“Maybe Seth set his bar too high with Tribes. Maybe I wasn’t in the right mood while reading it. Maybe Linchpin just describes what’s in my daily routine. Whatever the reason, I just didn’t find that magical ‘A-ha’ in the excerpt, the way I’m used to with Seth’s writing. I’ll give it another read a day or two later, to see if it’s ‘just me’!”

Well, let’s just say I didn’t need to read it again. Because Marcos’ short, insightful reply made the reasons clear to me in a flash of brilliance…

I am not a marketer by study or experience, and so Seth Godin’s earlier books had many a-ha moments – because they were about marketing.

TRIBES, and more so LINCHPIN, are not about marketing any more – they are about personal development.

LINCHPIN (and even TRIBES, in a way) is about throwing off the shackles of ‘conventional mediocrity’, about ‘following one’s heart’ and ‘making a difference’, about ‘attracting your audience by being unique, special, meaningful’ – and those are things I am ALREADY working on, understand better, have a certain experience with!

The essential premise is that “Everyone is an ARTIST”. And here, in Seth’s words, “artist means someone willing to stand up, stand out and make change.”

Maybe more traditional, corporate and ‘factory world’ readers in Seth’s audience (who may have viewed his earlier work with some ennui and a “So, what’s new?” attitude) will find many a-ha moments in LINCHPIN, the way I did in Purple Cow, or Free Prize Inside, or All Marketers Are Liars, or Survival Is Not Enough.

Like Rajesh Setty says in his very nice review of LINCHPIN,

“In LINCHPIN, Seth focuses on BEING rather than DOING. Seth’s compassionate plea is for everyone to ‘be’ an artist – be a Linchpin rather than a cog in the wheel.

Does this sound like a familiar theme from my blog posts here?

Having explored how difficult, scary, yet fulfilling it is to stop being a cog in the wheel, and for many years seeing one important purpose of my own blog to inspire as many others as possible to stop hesitating and take that plunge to ‘follow their heart’, I have probably instinctively tuned out much of what I read in LINCHPIN as being “stuff I already know, realize and completely agree with”… and might have dismissed on that ground alone!

So, thank you Marcos for showing me why I probably thought LINCHPIN was “nothing new”… and how, for that very reason, I need to tell many people who read my blog to get their own copy of LINCHPIN – and then think hard about making that decision to make a difference, in any way they like!

In his interview with Hugh McLeod, Seth Godin ends with:

“My work is done here, as the saying goes. To unleash something like this on the world, to go out this far on a limb and have people support you and embrace you and run with it… it’s the most ama­zing feeling.”

Do you want that feeling for yourself?

Then you should read LINCHPINand then follow YOUR heart.

Another good reason to do it is because, usually, reading Seth Godin’s books has nice “fringe benefits” – like TRIBES got me entry into Triiibes.com, a place where I’ve met some amazing LINCHPINS.

Here are a few reviews of LINCHPIN by fellow Triiibesters – you may find them interesting too:

Today, on his blog, Seth said: “It took me ten years to write this book. I’m hoping it changes a few people.”

The book is LINCHPIN.

You can get your copy here.

Read it – then decide.

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Changing Inside

by Dr.Mani on January 23, 2010

CAUTION: The theme of this blog post – and the video I link to – is NOT for children or squeamish, delicate people. It is raw, painful, and real. Skip it if you’re the kind who is too strongly affected by hearing of such things. You have been warned!

After four decades on this planet, having seen and heard of many sick and depraved activities, I find it amazing (and heartening) that I can still feel abhorrence, distaste and disgust at some things.

But I can. And do. It happened again last night.

Anish (@anishd19) on Twitter sent me a link to a TED Talk (India) video (NOTE: The video has graphic images and even more explicit content that can be hurtful).

I watched it – and squirmed in discomfort, cried in deep searing pain, and spent several disturbed hours thinking about many uncomfortable questions Sunitha Krishnan asked in the course of 12 short but lengthy minutes.

As a teen-ager, I loved reading novels by Harold Robbins. Many of my friends read it for the few pages of stark, explicit sexual narrative. I enjoyed the starker insight into human nature that Robbins was a master at expressing.

One of my favorite books was “79 Park Avenue”, a novel that defined a mindset and attitude about prostitution in my malleable brain that has lasted until today.

Sunitha’s presentation at TED ranks on par with this for impact.

Little children, their health and welfare, are close to my heart. I spend my professional career taking care of kids born with congenital heart defects. Most of my online work, writing and marketing efforts are directed at raising funds to sponsor their treatment.

Yet I have shied away from issues like child abuse and sex slavery in the past. Because I thought there was little or nothing I could actually do about it.

Now I feel ashamed about that. Of being a part of the uncaring and indifferent civic society the presenter decries in her powerful talk. The kind whose silence offers tacit, if passive support, to the cruelty of perpetrators – while adding insult to the injury of the abused.

And after sleeping over it, I decided to try and make amends for my silence until now – by sharing this amazing presentation, not with two people like Sunitha asked for, but with two thousand… or more.

Here, on this blog. And on Twitter. And other channels I have reach and impact on.

That’s the easy part.

What’s to follow is tougher. Much harder.

I’ve decided to try and change my mindset, attitude and prejudice about the victims. Not just of this kind, but of ANY kind of abuse. Because to spout empty words without backing it by deeper change within would be hypocritical.

It won’t be easy. It won’t happen overnight. It will take much soul searching and internal discipline.

I’m ready to try and do it.

Are you?

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Choosing Your Tribe – And Tools

Two young men joined the same online social network. They were very much alike, these two young men. Both had been average students, both were pleasant personalities, and both – as excited early adopters of technology are – were filled with dreams for the future.
Recently, these men reviewed their last 25 months on [...]

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Heart-break in Haiti

I shared my thoughts here about the horrific disaster that hit Haiti yesterday night.
For the past few years, I’ve been involved in helping Frank McKinney’s “Caring House Project” which builds homes for the homeless in Haiti.
As soon as I heard about the special initiative Frank’s team is taking to secure planes to fly immediately to [...]

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How I Stole Chetan Bhagat's Book – And Became His Fan

Chetan Bhagat is a popular Indian author. He has a string of best-selling novels out. Until recently, I was only vaguely familiar with his name.
Then last week, I bought his book, “One Night @ the Callcenter”. Found it a nice, quick read. And that might have been all – except that [...]

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Why I Won't Write GREAT Fiction!

“I believe there are two ways of writing novels. One is mine, making a sort of musical comedy without music and ignoring real life altogether; the other is going right deep down into life and not caring a damn.” – P. G. Wodehouse
When I was a teenager, I read a fascinating novel. It [...]

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Fans Are Fickle

A fascinating article everyone should read is “1,000 True Fans”. It’s about how anyone can have a thriving business that meets all their needs – if only they had 1,000 true fans!
In my course on email list building and marketing, I group subscribers into 5 categories – and teach the importance of focusing attention [...]

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On The Threshold

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In a few days, an event for which I’ve planned and prepared for months will take place. On August 25th, 2009 I will officially ‘launch’ my first ever print book,
“Think, Write & Retire – How To Turn Words Into Wealth, Easily!“
On the threshold of this special moment, there are mixed feelings. [...]

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Got Trust?

I haven’t read this book… yet!
But I’m asking you to buy a copy.

Why?
Because of TRUST. Trust that Chris Brogan has built up with me – over many months.
On his blog, he wrote:
“This one’s the biggie, friends. I want very much to have a chance at success with this book, and you are my key [...]

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8 Things Seth Godin Did To My Head This Year!

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It has been a year since I was introduced to TRIIIBES.com, the exclusive social network that’s a brainchild of marketing genius, thought leader and bestselling author Seth Godin.
Apart from everything else it has done, TRIIIBES messed with my head – in a good way. And it got me to do some things that I [...]

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