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Social Media – Mirror Or Magnifying Glass?

by Dr.Mani on November 23, 2010

RE-TWEET IT!

“Fame and fortune bring out your true character, good or bad.” – Anonymous

Authenticity, Transparency, Integrity

When the history of social media is written, the triad of words used to reference it may well be these.

In the deeply interconnected virtual Universe we all are a part of, it is becoming increasingly difficult to run and hide. Just about everything we say, do, or even think, is now ‘public domain’ in a disconcerting and scary way.

Welcome to “Life in the fishbowl”

Everyone (at least it seems that way) is watching you. Whatever you do, say or claim is subject to the closest scrutiny and debate. Your smallest move is now visible to hundreds, if not thousands or even millions around the world.

The brand called YOU

Your brand may start out as what you say or project about yourself and your business. But it ends up being what THEY say – ‘they’ being a global audience that’s scattered, and yet intimately connected via social media networks.

Integration is the key

You no longer have a choice. You need to weave this new reality into your view of the world – and adapt whatever you’re doing to leverage off its power. And that boils down to what you let social media become to you.

Mirror – Or Magnifying Glass?

At the simplest level, you can simply be “You” on social media. Let it reflect the diverse unique components that go to make up the incomparable wonder that stares back at you every time you look in a mirror.

Or you can go deeper, and tap into some of the more powerful facets of social media – like human networks, niche interests, sharing tools, and more – to amplify a few of them.

  • Make them exciting and fascinating, or horrifying and repulsive.

  • Gain mindshare and attention by honing down your focus like a laser beam.
  • Build tribes that engage with and follow you – because they like what you share.

Social media can be a mirror – or a magnifying glass. It depends on what you want to do with it.

What DO you?

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Why I Enjoyed “The Social Network”

by Dr.Mani on November 14, 2010

RE-TWEET IT!

The Social Network poster

Had he paid to have The Social Network produced and marketed, Mark Zuckerberg could consider it a wise and fruitful investment.

In two hours, it altered my perception of a driven and greedy capitalist who stole a great idea while stiffing his best friend en route to billionaredom, and turned it into one of a smart, savvy businessman who trusted his instincts and leveraged his judgment about the inadequacy of his partners as hopeless dreamers, to create a behemoth social network… that has since touched and revolutionized the lives of hundreds of millions of people – in less than a decade!

And if that were all that the movie did, it would still be worth shooting. Except that it does a lot more.

So much more, that I consider “The Social Network” among one of the more enjoyable films I’ve watched this year.

Some favorite scenes.

FaceMash has just been coded, and the first few emails go out to friends. The hero’s dorm mates ask, “How many people are you going to tell?” and he replies:

“The really important question is: How many people will they tell?

That’s how Facebook grew, if you come to think about it. Friends telling friends, who in turn told their friends!

Another one.

They’re seated at a table, with lawyers of both sides trading barbs. The twins burst out, “You stole our idea!”

Deadpan, Jesse Eisenberg who plays the uber-rich plaintiff quips:

“If Facebook was your idea, you’d have built Facebook.”

The final scene is poignant, too. It has the battle-weary CEO endlessly refreshing his Facebook page, seeking confirmation of a ‘friend’ request he sends his ex-girlfriend.

And in that subtle way, the director makes another point… no matter how much money you have, in the end we all crave recognition and affection from THAT special person. Without it, the rest doesn’t seem to matter all that much.

There were portions of the movie that were special to me in a more personal sense.

Watching the role of the maniacally focused young Zuckerberg brought back to mind my own youth – as a teenager, preparing for my pre-medical exams. Where the nerd in the movie stays glued to his computer screen, churning out thousands of lines of code, I would have my nose stuck in my textbooks for as long as 16 hours in a day as I fought to beat out the ‘competition’ for 1,000 medical school seats.

The difference lies only in WHAT we focus on as youngsters. The similarity is in the raw ambition, fierce determination and vast dreams we had about our future.

Surely that part will resonate with you, and everyone who watches the movie.

And finally, “The Social Network” got me to dream again.

Big dreams. Bold dreams. Daring dreams.

Because the undertone throughout is this…

ANYTHING is possible.

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Twitter Is A Waste, If…

Yes, Twitter is a waste.
But only if you consider one hour on it a waste… even if it results in 300 primary school kids getting important teaching aids.
Let me explain how I ‘wasted’ an hour this morning on Twitter. But first, here’s the…
Back Story
It started a few weeks back… with a connection on Twitter.
I [...]

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Why You Should Follow Me On Twitter

I’m an ‘early adopter’ of Twitter, signed up in June 2007.
Seeing how this could easily become a serious time-sucking activity, I set a limit of no more than 10 minutes a day on Twitter.
Also, I chose to follow no more than 40 people… and actually engage with them, read all their tweets, and have mini-conversations [...]

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Transparency, Authenticity, & Trust

Today, I posted my 10,000th tweet on Twitter. And of these thousands, one has been very widely re-tweeted… it says:

“Transparency is the new risk – Authenticity is the new currency – Trust is the new reward.”
Maybe because it encapsulates the essence of social media networking. Or maybe because it sounds nice and snappy. [...]

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Retweets Don't Make A Best-Seller

On August 25th, 2009, I had a fun-filled day launching my first ever print book, “Think, Write & Retire – How To Turn Words Into Wealth, Easily!“.
And in keeping with this era of social networking and marketing online, I was on Twitter most of the day, watching with mounting excitement as the buzz spread.
Tweet after [...]

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Get Creative With Twitter Mosaics

This here is a mosaic of (a part of) my Twitter network…

(click on the image to go to a detailed view)
Now here’s a contest – and you can win a copy of my new book, “Think, Write & Retire”
Come up with creative ways you can use this Twitter Mosaic in your business or life.
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8 Things Seth Godin Did To My Head This Year!

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It has been a year since I was introduced to TRIIIBES.com, the exclusive social network that’s a brainchild of marketing genius, thought leader and bestselling author Seth Godin.
Apart from everything else it has done, TRIIIBES messed with my head – in a good way. And it got me to do some things that I [...]

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27 Months of Twitter

Insights, Lessons and Suggestions to Make the Most of Twitter
It has been 27 months since I started using Twitter, the micro-blogging service that has set the social networking universe afire.
Over this period, I have learned many things about Twitter, tried out different ideas and modified the way I use this fascinating service. And interesting [...]

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Moments of Deep Gratitude

There are special moments in our lives when we feel deeply grateful for what is and has been. Today I enjoyed one such moment.
I got a parcel in the post. Opening it, I found a copy of one of my all-time favorite books, “The Aladdin Factor” – but this one was VERY special.
Inside [...]

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