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Back in the day, you really remembered things. Like special days for special people in your life. Like birthdays and anniversaries.
Taking the time and trouble to keep them in mind, call or visit the person to greet them, and pick gifts that were relevant, thoughtful and mattered to them was part and parcel of the complex art of negotiating and maintaining relationships.
I can still recall, offhand, the birthdays of my myriad cousins, uncles and aunts – because they were burned into my childhood brain by the risk of not remembering.
(“You forgot my birthday!” are ominous words you never wanted to hear from a disgruntled brother or furious sister… because the after-effects lingered for long!)
Somewhere in the mid-1980’s, Casio launched the ‘digital diary’, a personal organizer that streamlined and simplified the ‘remembering’ process. (And in the 1990’s, the Palm Pilot improved upon it).
With the click of a button, I could replicate my reminder notifications to show up every year, for the next decade – or ten. I could carry all this ‘personal’ data around in my shirt pocket!
With my diverse responsibilities growing rapidly (and in inverse proportion to my capacity to retain new data in my mind), the special days of nieces and nephews, extended families and networks, new friends and colleagues, were automatically relegated to the supplementary memory banks of technology driven innovation.
Today, I can turn my brain off – and still not ‘forget’ anyone’s special days.
When I log in to Facebook, I’m greeted with a long list of reminders. So-and-so is celebrating a birthday, anniversary or something else.
And to greet them, I no longer need to visit the gift store, pick up a card or present, wrap it or address the envelope, and mail it or take it over.
I just click another button!
Easy-peasy.
But… is it?
Someone remembers. True.
Technology does.
But somehow, it doesn’t feel quite the same as before.
When a PERSON cared and remembered.
Are those ‘good times’ gone forever?
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